Simon Sinek - An Author who talks predominantly about leadership. In one of his talks he asked the host "Tell me the moment you fell in love with your spouse, the date and time" - The host was not able to answer. There is no moment for love, success, achievement even for that matter failure.
It's a slow and a daily process which will take a huge amount of time. It's a very slow process. If you have ever been in love (esp for guys and some time for girls) - It was never successful in the first time.
Obvious answer will be NO. But wait, did you quit after the girl said we can be friends ?? No you never did. You said ok, we can be and you must have did all sorts of possible things to impress her (by being a friend) - And the intention of pushing the friendzone to the remotest universe.
You must have done it. When you can be so perseverant about love, why can't be show 1/3rd of it for Medicine. ! Why are we changing our attitude towards exam ? Why are we so depressed and not able to push in exams. Answer is peer pressure (very huge one) - My friend so and so will get the seat, I am still staying back.
Yes, it is a huge problem which we don't have much in personal life. But if you look carefully the peer pressure is dragging you down more than helping you. For a moment can we all think like in an ideal world ??
You already have an MBBS degree
You are good to go and treat any patient
Yes you are better than 90% of the population - Education, living, economically with MBBS.
Your life is secured.
You will get the PG seat of your choice,
You will climb up to the top 1-2% soon
And yes you are going to let down the peer pressure. It's not about "Apna Time Ayega" - You have to make sure every box is ticked and you will make the time and fate dance to your will - With only one thing HARDWORK
Will you ?? Against all odds ! - Tonight we shall revise entire genetics :) A Very good morning !